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Girlfriend cheated on me, parents arranging our marriage. But can't trust her!
Asked by Male, 25, Single
My girlfriend cheated on me. She had relationships with other guys. She had sex chat with them when I thought she was committed. When I came to know all about this, she cried and begged me that it happened on the initial days and she was not serious about our relationship then. She is saying that now she wants me and she's asking me to stay in her life. She apologized to me several times. But I can't forget all these. Before I came to know all these, we both have told our relationship to our families and they have agreed. Now they are going to arrange our marriage. Had I knew all these before, I would not have gone ahead in the relationship. Now she is begging me to marry her. I cannot forget what she has done to me. What should I do?
Answer
Nisha Bothra
Counselling Psychologist
Hi there. I am sorry to hear about this. You must feel angry and cheated. Can you answer some questions so I can understand your situation a little better?
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