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I am fulfilling all my duties since last 21 years but no respect from my husband

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My husband is not at all concerned about me. He never respects me. He is indifferent towards my illness also. I am living in a joint family and fulfilling all my duties since last 21 years. Now I am tired of all this shit and want to commit suicide at times.

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Sneha

Psychotherapist

Answered over 4 years ago

Dear Writer, thank you for writing in. You have shown so much courage in reaching out to us. I understand you are going through a very difficult time. You feel neglected and undervalued. You have done right by all your duties for so long and now you have reached a point where you are exhausted emotionally and physically. Not receiving the kind of validation you deserve and expect can be upsetting and draining. I would like to know more about you and your situation. It will help me understand and guide you better.
Could you please tell me more about yourself and your husband as individuals and elaborate on the problems you experience?
Considering you live in a joint family, can you tell me more about your relationship with your family members?
Do you have any children?
Please message back to continue discussing. I am here to help. Regards

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