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Married for 4 years with a daughter. Fighting a lot on small things

Asked by Male, 32, Married

We have been married frm last 4 years, we have a 2 years old daughter. We were having a good love and marriage life, but from last 1 years, too many issues and fights have started. Main reason is she doesn't like my once in a while drinks. I do it only once in few months. But still she doesn't like. I have stopped it from going to any parties also. I still love her and she also does. But she is always angry with me for some or the other reasons.

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Dr. Joseph

Counseling Psychologist

Message Dr. Joseph

Answered over 4 years ago

Hello,
Thank you for sharing concern with the askmile team. I know you feel troubled when you realize that there are fights for major or minor issues. One reason for the fight is your drinking once in a few months. If it is only once in a few moths why she is too much bothered about it? Is there any one in both sides of the families with serious drinking problem? Have you asked her whether she has any other issues with you? Are you both employed? Are you engaged with parenting your daughter? How much help she gets from you on home management? The situation has become like this only last one year.

Plan a half day outing with your wife and try to explore that is in her mind? Anything else troubling her?
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