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Unable to find a girl with the criteria decided by family within our community for marriage
Asked by Male, 29, Single
I am looking for a girl to marry, but I am very confused to decide as to how to select and my family too has some basic criteria and I am unable to find someone who can fulfill. Criteria are good looks, education at least a BE/Mtech/MCA/MSc. If she is a software professional then it will be good enough with the educated background. But I am unable to find someone with all these in my community.
Answer
Sneha
Psychotherapist
Dear Writer, thank you for writing to us. I understand you are looking for a life partner who meets your criterias. Finding a perfect partner who meets all your requirements is based on luck and time. You have to think about what your expectations from a marriage are. Think about things like compatibility and shared interests, personal and professional goals etc. Also think about what are the things you can compromise with. Just like how you have your criterias the opposite side will have their own set of criterias. A marriage is also a relationship. You need to be sure of what you want from a relationship. That's one way to reduce your confusion. Please message back to continue discussing. Regards
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