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Frequent fights and lack intimacy in arrange marriage. Regretting for wrong decision without knowing her!
Asked by Male, 30, Married
I have problems in my marriage. We frequently fight and lack intimacy. It was an arranged marriage and I keep on thinking I took a wrong decision that time. I did not get a chance to get to know her well and said yes for the marriage in haste. She has some good qualities too. Now it is been 4 years since our marriage and I feel it will be wrong if I leave her now. I am confused, what should I do??
Answer
Michelle
Counseling Psychologist
Hi Writer, thank you for sharing your problem. I understand it must be difficult and confusing at this point since it sounds like you must have built a some form of a relationship with your wife in the last 4 years and you also acknowledge that she has some good qualities, which makes it hard to take a decision that might be hurtful to her.
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