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Husband talking to his girl student sex talks and sending love messages.
Asked by Female, 30, Married
Got to see some messages on husband's mobile where he is discussing with a girl(one of his student) on some candid topic like virginity n after few days HV seen him sending "love u" to d same girl. When I asked him initially he told me just friends. But he is not that friendly by nature. So I cannot help myself by agreeing with him that it's just a friendship. Plz help me out.
Answer
Sneha
Psychotherapist
Dear Writer, thank you for writing in. I can see that you are struggling to trust your husband. Can you tell me how you came across the messages? I understand you find the content of the messages questionable. How has this affected you and your relationship? You say your husband is not friendly by nature but can you tell me more about the nature of your relationship with each other? How long have you both been married? Answering these questions will give me a better picture and help you accordingly. Please do message back to continue our discussion.
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