Short-tempered husband gets angry for silly things and abuse me. Regret, love and console after cooling down

Dear Writer, thank you for writing to us. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help. I understand you dilema and the hurt caused by your husband's anger. So let's put things in perspective. Your husband loves you, cares for you, sees to your needs and is pretty much what you would want from a good partner. But no amount of love and care can ever condone or justify physical abuse. It is wrong and is a punishable offence. You are in an abusive relationship. If your husband feels really bad about his behaviour then he seriously needs to work on it and make a change and for this he might need psychological help. It is also upto you to end this cycle. Every time you forgive and let go you invariably end up contributing to this cycle of abuse. I don't doubt he loves you but he can't control his anger and takes it out on you which is a serious problem. Your concern about it becoming worse is understandable. Have you tried suggesting that he get help for his behaviour?
Please message back to continue discussing. I am here to help. Regards
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