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Wife speaks about older issues during often fights which makes me irritated!
Asked by Male, 28, Married
I'm 28 year old married working professional. My wife is currently studying. It has been 1 year since our marriage, we fight often. The frequency has now increased. But whenever she fights she put up all older issues that makes me irritated with her.
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Sneha
Psychotherapist
I understand you are concerned about your marriage. Could you tell me what are the things you both tend to fight about? Also could you tell me more about yourself and your wife as individuals? It will help me understand your situation better and guide you accordingly
While it's natural to have disagreements, what matters is how you both communicate, understand and solve the matter. The first year of marriage is often considered the hardest because you getting to know each other's likes and dislikes while living with each other. Both of you are bound to irritate each other as well.
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